Hebrews 12v5-13

Heavenly father
give us grace to learn from our mistakes, and accept correction so that our lives may blossom with the peaceful fruit of righteousness

⁵ You have forgotten the exhortation which reasons with you as with children,
“My son, don’t take lightly the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when you are reproved by him;
   ⁶for whom the Lord loves, he disciplines, and chastises every son whom he receives.”
⁷ It is for discipline that you endure.
God deals with you as with children, for what son is there whom his father doesn’t discipline? 
⁸ But if you are without discipline, of which all have been made partakers, then you are illegitimate, and not children. 
⁹ Furthermore, we had the fathers of our flesh to chasten us, and we paid them respect.
Shall we not much rather be in subjection to the Father of spirits, and live? 
¹⁰ For they indeed, for a few days, punished us as seemed good to them;
but he for our profit, that we may be partakers of his holiness. 
¹¹ All chastening seems for the present to be not joyous but grievous;
yet afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it. 
¹² Therefore lift up the hands that hang down and the feeble knees, 
¹³ and make straight paths for your feet,
so what is lame may not be dislocated, but rather be healed.