James 4v1-4

Heavenly father
give us grace today to discern the difference between thankful enjoyment of the life in the world that you created, and an unhealthy focus on gratifying our pleasures

¹ Where do wars and fightings among you come from?
Don’t they come from your pleasures that war in your members? 
² You lust, and don’t have.
You murder and covet, and can’t obtain.
You fight and make war.
You don’t have, because you don’t ask. 
³ You ask, and don’t receive, because you ask with wrong motives, so that you may spend it on your pleasures. 
⁴ You adulterers and adulteresses, don’t you know that friendship with the world is hostility toward God?
Whoever therefore wants to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.